saturday.

Will triumphs destiny.

okay, today's saturday.
and lit exam is on mon.
wwhich means im left with less than 46 hrs to finish the mugging.
well, gonna give myself a boost and chiong all the way froma fternoon to night.

haha, saw my uncle on news ytd.
he's the guy who donated a kidney to hsi wife.
and this news is reported cuz,
the medical team finds it an achievement,
to make a kidney transplant between two ppl of diff blood grps.
despite the fact of the antibiotics and sort of stuff,
NUH did it. a new chpt in Singapore's medical history.

im here not to praise how zai the medical team is.
nor how advance the medical technology is.
im here to comment on my uncle.

somehow since the day he took the operation for the transplant,
i found him to be extraordinary.
he did not mind living the next 30-40 yrs of his life with one kidney.
think abt wad else you can only do with one kidney.
you cant do much things, neither sports.
somemore donating to his wife,
a person of a diff blood grp.
if the transplant fails means a waste of his effort, and kidney.
he must have extraordinary courage to do such thing.

another thing that somehow makes him extraordinary,
is also due to the fact that he donated a kidney to his wife.
haha, being a close relative of theirs,
i've seen the couple trying to overcome difficult times together.
its reported that my aunt has been on dialysis for 7 yrs.
well, my uncle has nvr ever abandon her,
and even went to the far extent to donate his kidney,
in order for her to live.

all along i see how he gave time and money to my aunt.
he dedicated his life to look after my aunt.
and now he donated a kidney to his closest partner.
he now live life with one kidney,
somehow as the sole breadwinner of his family,
he didnt earn much.
one kidney means a huge advantage for him.
but, he did not mind all the hardships and troubles after the transplant.
he did not mind the risk of the operation.
he went on for it. for my aunt.

我现在不是要你为爱而亡，而是为爱生不如死。你肯吗？

he made such a big sacrifice for something that many did not value,
or many that violate, or many that mis-uses.
he did it, not for the survival of his mate,
but for the love of them.

thinking back,
asking me to eat a bullet and die for her is too easy.
perhaps, love for one person,
is to the extent that u're willing to give anything to her,
not for the love u have for her,
but just you want her to lead life happily.

It's not the talents or abilities one has that makes one extraordinary; its the deeds that one person has done to make a difference in him or her.

a price that seems so big to pay,
but my uncle did it, for love.

are you even willing to live life the harshest way,
just for the one you love to be happy?

thinking back,
if you ask me to not jut lose a kidney,
but to lose everything, physical and material in this world, just for her,
i'll gladly agree to that.

EXTRAORDINARY. because he did something extraordinary, not that he is extraordinary.